Gender Pronouns In The Workplace: Correct Ways To Do It

Gender and gender pronouns have garnered an overwhelming response in mainstream discussion over the last few years. The quandary regarding public pronouns is symbolic of a wider debate in which all companies should participate. In the quest of more equality and diversity, more businesses are enabling their employees to communicate their gender pronouns to represent their gender expression, whether on an email signature, business card, or elsewhere.

Let's see in what ways you can use gender pronouns effectively in your workplace.

But first, what are gender pronouns?

Pronouns are the words used to refer to a person on the basis of gender. Surprisingly, some people do not like to be identified with their biological gender so they choose to be addressed personally or in a gender neutral manner.

It is widely accepted now that everyone has the freedom to choose their own gender and be identified and respected as such at their workplace. The four key tips to truly be inclusive and diverse at the workplace:


Do Not Make Assumptions.

Never make assumptions about someone's gender identification and be mindful that a person's pronouns might change over time. They may also alter depending on the situation. A person's name, type of clothing, or other visible cues do not always indicate how that individual identifies.

That applies to anyone of any gender identification, not only transgender people. So, if you're speaking to someone but don't know their gender identity, refer to them with gender-neutral words or stay silent at all until you've full knowledge about them. What if you don't know someone's gender? If you're still unsure, ask them "what pronouns do you love?"

However, when you're approaching someone for the first time, this might be tricky. You can use the gender-neutral phrase in this circumstance.

Educate Yourself.

Unlearning and re-learning is the key here. Generally, a person's gender is presumed based on whether they are "feminine" or "masculine." Beyond these typical he/his/him and her/she pronouns, there are other applicable terms that you must learn. Meetings, open spaces, seminars, social media postings, and sensitive information regarding diversity can help staff develop a rather more liberal perspective.


Top level managers may set examples for all staff by creating a positive vibe. Fostering a setting where everyone feels comfortable bringing their true individuality to work is an essential aspect of enabling staff to excel. Indeed, this was certainly not a subject of conversation in your company a few years ago.

But, it's about time that you incorporate this in your policies. With only a little education and practice, you can contribute to making your workplace more approachable to all employees.

Also, you can have a "zero-tolerance" culture for bullying and harassment to maintain a pleasant and secure workplace for all employees.


Normalize Neutral Language and Spaces.

Organizations must incline less towards gendered language and frame policies of using an inclusive language system for communicating within the workplace. Use of they, them, their are great examples under this head. Also, exchanging man and woman with 'person' and ladies and gentlemen with 'people' can promote inclusivity in the media channel.

For example, avoid saying, 'man with yellow shirt'- what you can say instead is, 'person with yellow shirt'.

Moreover, creating gender inclusive spaces is the need of the hour, including gender neutral restrooms. Other resources on the grounds, such as clubs, food courts, offices, and leisure areas, should be open to everybody.

Don't Invade Their Privacy.

Just as you are mindful of their medical condition, health, marital status, parental status, and income status - make sure to respect their gender identities too. As a boss, you should use proper pronouns while addressing your team members. You see, this is how you demonstrate to them that they are important and that you appreciate who they are and how they like to be called.

While we are seeing impressive efforts on the part of employers imposing more gender favorable policies, on the flip side, there's still an enormous gap between input and output. As we slowly progress to incorporate gender inclusiveness and diversity, we are yet to see a massive change ushering in the corporate world.

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